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Girlfriend Has Male Friends
Beware of girlfriends with male friends. This is a recipe for disaster. These vultures hang around your girlfriend to use her for what ever they can get while she keeps them around for the same reason. Guy, I am telling you after a while your girlfriend will give her guy friend a piece of action for being so dedicated to her. Remember, your girlfriend will rationalize that this guy friend is very good to her because he is willing to do a lot of stuff that you do not do with her.
Your girlfriend will casually dismiss you and go to the mall shopping with her guy friend and say to you that her guy friend enjoys shopping and taking her out to dinner, your girlfriend will tell you that you do not like doing these type of things. While all that may be true, her guy friends focus is strictly sex. The guy friend will do anything that he has to do in order to get that sex. He will hang around as long as he has to and do what ever task it take for the thrill of sexing another guys girlfriend. Think about it, this guy could end up with a girl that he can hit it and split it because she has a boyfriend she can not take to much of his time. Some of these guy friend snakes can have a few women like your girlfriend that they get easy sex from. Dude, the worst part in this is that your girlfriend feels perfectly justified in having these guy friend rats around. They are serving her purpose. Your girlfriend will instruct her guy friends to act like they are just legitimate friends.
Now I am going to tell you a red flag to watch for with your sneaky girlfriend and her guy friends. If any of these guy friends do not act normal around you than something is going on. The guy friend could act hostile, nervous, or uncomfortable around you. Think about it, why would he be uncomfortable if everything is on the up and up. Another thing to look out for is if she is acting some of the ways that i mentioned above, like her guy friend.
When your girlfriend has male friends be on the alert. Be suspicious and demand that she treats you super specially good. If she says that her male friend is nice or is good at a particular thing than you have to reprimands her for that because that can be a subtle blow at you. How can she compliment another guy and put you down in any way? Thing about it! Attraction is based on respect and admiration. If your girlfriend can put you down and another man up than what is next?
You have to take control of the situation. Girlfriends with guy friends are not allowed. Let her know you see everything for what it is and will not allow her to hang around or communicate with guy friends who are interested in her. Once you communicate with your woman she will confide in you how these guy friends have expressed interest in her. Now you can really talk to her about these guys true intentions in case she was unaware of them.
Once you have expressed to your girlfriend that you do not want her to hang around these guys now you can step back and chill. Watch her for the next few days to see if she continues this behavior. If you notice a change than you are trending in the right direction with her. If she maintains contact with these male friends than you are dealing with a whore. She is a woman that does not mind being the second woman, the jump off for these other guys. In that case I do suggest that you take some steps in replacing her for a loyal woman.
Many women will say that their guy friends are just friends. That may well be true, but remember what I said about the guy friends true sexual intentions towards your girlfriend. If your girlfriend knows that these guys have underlying sexual attractions towards them, than why in the world is she hanging around them? There are some real character issue here. If this is a girl that you trust that's fine but do you trust these guys?
Last Updated (Wednesday, 24 February 2010 14:54)



































