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When your Girlfriend Does Not Show Affection, there is a problem. She is showing you that she is not happy about something. If your girlfriend is not as affectionate as you would like you have to let her know that it bothers you. If your girlfriend withholds sex and doesn't want to be intimate, you have to get to the root cause of this. A lot of men think that when their girlfriend withholds sex that it could be something that they did wrong and she is withholding sex to get back at them or to control her man. I am telling you that if your girlfriend does not show affection, withholds sex and doesn't want to be intimate, it may not have anything to do with you and it may all be her issues.

Most women actually hate men deep down inside. No matter what their background is most women hate men. I will share two extremely different cases with you as an example. Lets say you have a good girl from a middle class family that was raised by mom and dad, where dad was the head of the household. This girl has a resentment of dad or the male figure because in her mind mom had to submit to dad. Now lets look at a poor girl from a single mother household. She grew up looking at the mother struggle with little to know help from a male partner. When the mother did have a boyfriend none of them stuck around for a long time. This girl hates men because she looks at them as using her mom and not providing for the family. There is also the girl that got abused as a youngster and views sex as a control mechanism. I know this stuff is deep but I am telling you when your girlfriend does not show affection, withholds sex and doesn't want to be intimate, these are the root causes.

Do not going around thinking this is your issue and not hers. Healthy women understand that sex is something enjoyed by both people. A healthy woman doesn't view sex as," what is in it for me". Healthy women understand that sex is something special shared by both partners. A couple of reasons your girlfriend doesn't want sex may be.

• She is insecure
• You may not be a good lover
• She does not like her body
• She is selfish
• She have some personal problems
• She may not like normal sex
• She has relationship with her vibrator
• She may be cheating on you

When your girlfriend is never in the mood, and doesn't want to be intimate, find out what is going on. Let her know of your dissatisfaction and disappointment with her. Talk to your girlfriend about the issue directly. You have to come to an understanding with your girlfriend about her withholding sex. Find out why she is not in the mood to have sex with you. Next thing to do is to find  out what gets her in the mood. Some women like kissing and touching, some women like dirty talk, some women like to perform oral on their man to get in the mood, some women need a few drinks, some women just want to use their vibrators to please themselves then they will please you. I have seen it all. There are women out there that are in love with their vibrators and not you. The bottom line is you have to find out what your woman's sequence for sex is. Make her give you the key to her sex. Once that is done you have to have an understanding, an agreement with your women about the kind of sex that you both need in order to feel fulfilled. If one of you do not feel sexually fulfilled that can lead to all kinds of trouble like cheating and ultimately break up.

When your girlfriend turns you down for sex. You must address this fairly quickly. Let her know you are not satisfied. Voice your opinion. If you let a day or two go by with out saying anything she is going to think this kind of behavior is acceptable. You can not reward her bad behavior by acting like nothing is happening. I am telling you that if you don't put your foot down on this issue one of you will cheat and then break up the relationship. A real man will approach his girlfriend right away when she turns him down for sex, he will find out what is going on, he will try to work with her to fix the issue, and if the issue is not corrected he will eventually find another women for his sexual outlet and will ultimately leave his girlfriend when he starts to get affection from the new girl. If he is not getting love, affection or sex at home why would he stay? If she is not giving you the affection and sex that you need than she really does not want you, it may be time to find another woman that will take care of all of your needs.